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so recently i basiclly banned my father from ever returning into my life so he went to live with his mom who i lived with for a year. But today i just broke he turned my favorite family member against me and made me cry myself to sleep ive had panic attacks lately and i just dont know if i can continue anymore i know ive been a bit of ill go with irratating lately hope this gives us a brief explanation of why but i really need help i just cant take it anymore im being forced to take sides in my own family.
The boundaries which divide Life from Death are at best shadowy and vague. Who shall say where the one ends, and where the other begins?
The only side you should ever take is your own, Ender. If your dad wants to try and ruin your life, you have to be strong and refuse to allow it. You dad is a punk, and if you don't want anything to do with him, that is your choice. He is just showing how much of a child he is by trying to force you in to something you don't want.
So... Do caterpillars know that they are going to become Butterflies, Or do they just build a cocoon and go "WTF am I doing"
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Apologizes for the late reply, just read it now, and responding right now too.
While I don't have the kind of father that turns some of your family against yourself, I do know what is having a broken family and having to take sides. It's part of our nature to be somewhat selfish and want to lead others, so it's common to make ''sides'' and want to drag everyone around to agree with us. My grandma says my father is meant to disgrace, to be always around the misfortune, because he does stuff in a way that things always end wrong, failing compromises and dragging others down. It's the same grandma that sides my mother when she ends screaming and throwing me out of house, because she always takes her version first.
My father is the kind that gives the best advice and is always there when you actually do need him for real (not just for having him go and do something for you) and he does little to nothing to try and keep me at his side (which is kinda the problem, since he ends giving me little to zero love, the one thing I need, just for his constant desire to avoid spoiling his child). My father is off the old school, traditional ancient stuff. 'Don't hit woman' 'Be good'. He is not the most responsible ever, as he preferred to be free of the problems of being an employee and a student to make himself his own life. One of his most told stories is the one where he took me back to my mom's (yeah....they were still married but leaving in different houses) and me, as little 5 years old or so didn't want to be with moms and screamed to stay with dads. My father saw the desperation in my mom and grandma's eyes and he would never try to make me stay with him, he would never spoil me or do anything to keep me. He kinda exaggerates....but....it was, it was really quite the nice gesture from him. I do like being like this, not a spoiled one, but darn one is so different when being a child.
I am talking too much about myself, am I not? Shoot. Well there were times that I really had issues with them both. They have been divorced for years, but there would still be problems. Mom sending my to my father house because she doesn't stand me anymore, messages going between themselves that I later had to somehow explain....uffg. I always felt like I was in middle of two walls, being squeezed. Father talking sometimes bad about my mom's shopping (her money, her work, she can really buy whatever she pleases), grandma's saying, mother asking father to give money for my stuff (dragons are....kinda costly to have at home =P). But you know what I did? Send them to all to hell and live my own life. I cried, it was painful all the time, but simply telling them to fix their own problems was so darn comforting.
What should you do? Try to speak with them. With that family member you care about, with your mom, with your father. Avoid getting involved with your feelings and simply do tell them what you truly feel and desire. Tell them how much they are hurting you, tell them their version, speak yourself, tell them all what bothers you and why. If they care little and don't listen to you, you can be calm and know that it's all their fault then. If they don't listen to you when you are speaking at them nice and kind, then they are simply not worth of it. You shouldn't care about the ones that don't care about you. You need to evaluate who is important for you and if you can still have a decent conversation with them.
A decision about banning some from ever returning to your life is something meant to be done by a mature mind. Try to calm down and think things over. If you father is horrible and this is needed, then so be it, but don't let the moment feelings take control of you. My mom has screamed at me to not ever return to the house at least...three times in my entire life and she just hugged and told me to never go a second ago. One really has to think it over and not just scream it. I have also made my own decision of never going to live again with my father at his house, because it's uncomfortable, bothersome, awkward....but it's something I did by thinking it over and still trying doing stuff with him. I didn't just screamed it at him. It's important to think with a more relaxed mind.
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